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There’s nothing worse for a guy than the fear of not performing up to her standards in the sack. Whether it’s the first time or the hundredth time getting intimate with that special lady, you should always be focused on keeping her more than satisfied. Here is a checklist of six pointers to help you bring your A-game in the sheets.

Smell Good

One of the biggest turn-ons for a woman are delightful smells. The way she responds to a pleasurable smell will immediately drive the rest of her senses wild, igniting her sensuality. Make sure you know what she likes and definitely don’t over do it. As easily as a smell can turn her on, it can just as easily turn her off if it’s overwhelming. One fragrance that really stands out is Bleu De Chanel. “60% of the time, it works every time.”

Foreplay

Woman have sexual engines, so to speak. You can’t just turn them on and immediately press the pedal to the floor. You have to practice patience and gradually work into it to get to the good parts. Kiss her all over and find her erogenous zones to maximize pleasure. Going down on her is not unappreciated by any means, but the little touches and time taken before action makes a ton of difference.

Fitness

There are more sides to this than you realize. By staying on top of your fitness, you produce more pheromones  that women respond to by primal nature. It’s not that you have to be ripped up like a julienne salad (though it definitely doesn’t hurt) to turn her on, but just by increasing testosterone levels she’ll naturally be more responsive. Also, you’ll have the stamina to go the distance and make sure she gets exactly what she’s looking for.

Talk to Her

Sometimes deciphering body language can be tough. Bringing up sex during sex isn’t as hard as some men make it out to be. She expects you to take the lead in the bedroom and you should do so in all areas. Make sure you ask her how it feels – and guide her in making you feel good too! Depending on your comfort levels with your partner, take smalls steps with communication in the sheets and eventually you’ll be on each others wave length like never before.

Get a Little Wild

Sex isn’t going to always be like this, but one way to really drive her up the wall is, well, just that – drive her up against the wall! Try introducing some real primal feelings into your sexy time. You’ll not only show her you’re way into it, but you’ll allow her to open up as well and let her inner sexual deviant out. It may be the best move you ever made.

Make Her Feel Special

This is by far the most subjective issue you’ll find, as there is no sure fire way to nail down how to make her feel special. But letting her know she’s beautiful, desirable, and the only one for you are a few good ways to start. Women are sensitive creatures and often need reassurance to remind them just how much they mean to you and how much you love being in bed with them. Remember, the more special she feels, she that’s much more willing to go the extra mile for you.